This topic has been on my mind the whole week and I decided to put my thoughts out and process them here. So, here they are...
Why 'journey to grey'? Think about it. When really does this journey start?
The day we let out our first cry on our first appearance on this earth, we embarked on that journey. Every day of our lives, is a day closer to greying. What differentiates one day from the other in our lives? Nothing. The choices we make and the way we spend our time, is the only distinguishing factor in each day. Greying comes suddenly, for some people. Before you are even aware of it, the times have changed and the years have passed. Suddenly, ten (10) or twenty (20) years ago feels like yesterday. Only the use of our time makes the difference.
Living deliberately cannot be over-emphasized, living like each day would be a landmark in one's life, living like each day actually mattered, because it does.
... to be continued
Share your thoughts.
Saturday 23 January 2016
Saturday 9 January 2016
InSeCuRiTy
Times have changed, I think. When insecurity is heard these days, one of the first things that come to mind is terrorists, bombs, killings and the like.
There's another type of insecurity, it is with regards the emotions. Emotional insecurity does not start in one day. It is a process, and it blossoms when it is fed with what it wants to perceive.
The fruits of insecurity are constant misconceptions, distrust, miscommunication, and all these affect any blossoming relationship.
When one is convinced that someone cannot be trusted, and begins to see the need to stalk the person, it is a major mark of insecurity; strangely, these convictions may be founded on fallacy and misunderstandings. This may be debated or debatable, but this is my opinion about it. I feel it is very important to be secure in oneself, and not need the affirmation of another person's actions or inactions.
It may be disappointing to observe certain traits in someone, but it does not automatically term to losing one's peace over it. Be secure in who you are, be happy and be free.
In the event you have fallen victim to insecurity and it's traits, it is possible to be free from it. A living example is sharing her opinion.
Share your thoughts, I would like to learn from you.
There's another type of insecurity, it is with regards the emotions. Emotional insecurity does not start in one day. It is a process, and it blossoms when it is fed with what it wants to perceive.
The fruits of insecurity are constant misconceptions, distrust, miscommunication, and all these affect any blossoming relationship.
When one is convinced that someone cannot be trusted, and begins to see the need to stalk the person, it is a major mark of insecurity; strangely, these convictions may be founded on fallacy and misunderstandings. This may be debated or debatable, but this is my opinion about it. I feel it is very important to be secure in oneself, and not need the affirmation of another person's actions or inactions.
It may be disappointing to observe certain traits in someone, but it does not automatically term to losing one's peace over it. Be secure in who you are, be happy and be free.
In the event you have fallen victim to insecurity and it's traits, it is possible to be free from it. A living example is sharing her opinion.
Share your thoughts, I would like to learn from you.
Saturday 2 January 2016
Here We Are!
Here we are, two weeks after my last post, and it is a new year!
Wow! How time flies right?
Every new year, we are presented with the opportunity to re-strategize and do certain things better than we did the previous year. Just as every day gives us a clean sheet to write on, so does a new year.
Some see them as resolutions; promises to themselves to make changes in their lives.
You probably want to know if I have a resolution... Well...I'm thinking in terms of better relationships, working as a team in the relationships that require teamwork, and pursue the dreams and desires I have either ignored, or been too scared to acknowledge. I desire to at least, start, and see them flesh up.
These thoughts team up in my mind, and I'm planning to skin them and live them out!
How about you?
Wow! How time flies right?
Every new year, we are presented with the opportunity to re-strategize and do certain things better than we did the previous year. Just as every day gives us a clean sheet to write on, so does a new year.
Some see them as resolutions; promises to themselves to make changes in their lives.
You probably want to know if I have a resolution... Well...I'm thinking in terms of better relationships, working as a team in the relationships that require teamwork, and pursue the dreams and desires I have either ignored, or been too scared to acknowledge. I desire to at least, start, and see them flesh up.
These thoughts team up in my mind, and I'm planning to skin them and live them out!
How about you?
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