Times have changed, I think. When insecurity is heard these days, one of the first things that come to mind is terrorists, bombs, killings and the like.
There's another type of insecurity, it is with regards the emotions. Emotional insecurity does not start in one day. It is a process, and it blossoms when it is fed with what it wants to perceive.
The fruits of insecurity are constant misconceptions, distrust, miscommunication, and all these affect any blossoming relationship.
When one is convinced that someone cannot be trusted, and begins to see the need to stalk the person, it is a major mark of insecurity; strangely, these convictions may be founded on fallacy and misunderstandings. This may be debated or debatable, but this is my opinion about it. I feel it is very important to be secure in oneself, and not need the affirmation of another person's actions or inactions.
It may be disappointing to observe certain traits in someone, but it does not automatically term to losing one's peace over it. Be secure in who you are, be happy and be free.
In the event you have fallen victim to insecurity and it's traits, it is possible to be free from it. A living example is sharing her opinion.
Share your thoughts, I would like to learn from you.
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